Encouragement For My Phamily

Well, something interesting happened on David Phelps' message board in the Prayer Room. I was reading the prayer requests posted there and became so inspired to say something encouraging that I typed out the following message to everyone. I believe God gave me these words for those who need it. I hope it helps you as well.



God's gonna' take care of things. He always has and continues to do so today. Things don't always get fixed the way we planned they would, but that's because we can't see the whole picture and God can. What happens in the end is for the best according to the Kingdom of God. All we need to do is ask Him and let go of it all.

Everything that is pulling us all down now, will someday be over. It will either be over in this lifetime here on earth or it will certainly be over when we get to Heaven. There IS an end to suffering and pain. It just takes too long.......for us.

In trials, we are learning to lean on God and His abilities....not our own. We are learning who He is and what He's all about. We are learning about humility and true strength that only comes from our Father in Heaven.

We can all get through this mess that we are praying about one more day....and then one more day after that....and then one more, etc. ONLY because Jesus lives!

"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

Be encouraged today and everyday. Help is there in Christ Jesus and the end is near.

A Beautiful Quote

This is a small part of the biography of David Phelps and I was so proud of him when I read it. I wanted to share it with all of you here. If you are interested in reading it all, please visit www.davidphelps.com and click on BIO on the right side of the screen. Enjoy!

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The one thing David is sure of is that while being an entertainer and a minister is his vocation, his calling is to be a husband and father.

"That's what drives me," he says. "When I have to go out of town I take the last flight out and the first flight back. I'm going to have a family. I'm going to have a marriage that is solid and strong. I will not sacrifice that for any career, even one that is hopefully drawing people toward God. My ministry truly is to my family first and foremost."

That is his legacy of love.
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Great Words!

I just read these two wonderful statements on a certain forum I visit from time to time. I especially like the last one!

"Sometimes the majority only means that all the fools are on the same side."

"A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her."

Ephesians 4:29

“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”

The God Of Details

Before work this morning, I decided to go to Tim's blog and do some reading. Tim is my husband, for those of you who are new here. I'm fully aware of the fact that Tim hasn't posted anything new on his blog since January this year, but I thought I would go ahead and re-read some things. Well, as I scrolled down the screen, I found myself reading everything he had posted on the whole first screen. It was as though everything was new to me and I hadn't read this stuff before. I was reading with an open mind attempting to view things in a fresh new way. I found myself enjoying what I read and being drawn closer to the author of those words. I thought to myself how beautiful this person is and how proud I am of him in how he talks about God.

It's a wonderful thing for me to watch Tim and listen to him living life and realize that he's my husband....the one God chose for me.....the one I asked God for all those years ago when I was growing up and thinking all the good guys were already taken. I was just sure that there was never going to be anyone for me. Now, I can look back on all that pain and crying years ago and see God working in my life. The theme of my life has been WAITING.

When God provided me with Tim, He gave me more than I had asked for...and I asked for detailed things I wanted in a guy. God provided the kind of teen guy He knew I would need right then.....He provided the kind of young adult He knew I would need when I was in my 20's....He provided the kind of man He knew I would need right now in my 30's and I am convinced there are more glorious things to come from God in my relationship with Tim in our future together.

God gave me a man who had never been to bed with anyone until we got married. God gave Tim a wife who had never been to bed with anyone until marriage as well. It seems that now-a-days, this is almost unheard of, but I assure you, it does happen. I am grateful to this very day that Tim is unaware of anyone else but me. He cannot compare me to anyone else because he has only experienced me. I simply have no words to explain to you what this very important thing means to me! God is so very, very good!

When something in your life seems impossible, ask God and give Him details. He is the God of details. Then, wait on Him......no matter how long it takes! That's the hard part.

If you would like to read Tim's blog, here is the link....

http://www.timsopinions.blogspot.com/

I proudly refer to Tim as "my man" because to me, he is everything good in this world all wrapped up in one person. To me, he is everything a man should be. He's mine, he's mine, he's mine!

October 11th this year will be our 10 year wedding anniversary. We exchanged classrings and became boyfriend and girlfriend on that day back in 1991 and dated for 6 years to the day. Our first house was his parents garage which Tim and his grandpas had fixed up into a very cute little apartment. We lived there for 2 or 3 years before moving to our first real house, where we live now.

I said all of this to honor my God, my husband, and hopefully give hope to those of you reading this who have given up hope of ever finding the man or woman of your dreams.

Just a little tip: God must be first.

Can God Sing In My Life?

I was just watching David Phelps sing on a bunch of YouTube videos and was making comments to Tim after each one. I just told him that if I get to go to the Christmas concert in Ashland this year, I'm seriously considering not taking my camera this time. I told him that I already had a couple of pictures of myself with David and they're nothing more than pictures of me with a guy. I told him that I don't go to David's concerts to listen to David. I go to listen to God because it's God singing through David.

People don't have the capability to bring other people to their knees or to their feet. Only God has that ability. I have never personally seen and heard David sing without people standing. This has intrigued me for years and I just can't help but take notice when David sings. David has no power on his own. When people listen to the power coming from his voice, they are not attracted to David like some would like to believe. They are being drawn by the power of God and the message being sung.

I really didn't want this post to be about David Phelps. I want it to be about what can happen when a human, created by God, allows God to work through him/her. I believe people's ears are cleaned out when God speaks. How beautiful it is when God sings!

I wonder.....

Can you speak?

Can you sing?

Can you cook?

Can you sew?

Can you mow grass?

Can you do laundry?

Can you care for children?

Can you care for the elderly?

Can you weed flower beds?


What can God do with the talent He has given you? Wouldn't it be cool to find out? Now, I can't guarrantee you that people will stand at attention when you come to their home and weed their garden....or that your children will applaud you as they watch you wash their laundry.....but I can tell you that whatever you do, if you do it for God's glory, all of heaven is applauding.

You know, there really isn't any other applause I would rather have!

What would it look and sound like if God sang in your life?

Curb Your Hunger

with Joyce Meyer

“Jesus said to them, ‘I am the bread of life;
he who comes to Me will not hunger, and
he who believes in Me will never thirst.”
(John 6:35)

I’ve always been a very intense person, though I’ve lightened up some over the past few years. I think it was a combination of my natural personality, the way I was raised and my early environment. I was abused in childhood. Fun was something we never really had I remember getting in trouble for laughing and making too much noise, or playing when I could have been working. I became a double workaholic with a false sense of responsibility who didn’t know she was stressed because her life was out of balance.

My husband, Dave, would never let my attitudes steal his joy. He stayed happy, no matter what. That was one of the things that finally got me to realize that I was out of balance. I didn’t realize the value of joy. God gave us a laugh for a reason, and I’ve discovered that I have to take every opportunity to lighten up instead of just being focused on work.

About 20 years ago the Lord basically told me out of Psalm 27:4 that if I didn’t spend personal time with Him, not to get a sermon to preach but just time with Him, the devil would kill me because God’s presence is a protection in our lives. I have to let God do the heavy lifting, I have to go to Him first and let Him show me what to do.

Discipline, determination, and self-will can only take us so far. We try to walk in the fruit of the Spirit. We try to behave in a godly manner. We try to change ourselves. There’s no point in starting something if we don’t first see if God wants to be involved with it and get His strength.

Every person has a God-shaped hole on the inside of them and nothing can fill it but God. No matter what we try to stick in it, nothing is going to work but God. Only God can satisfy us. People try so many things food, drink, drugs, sex, work, play but they don’t really know what they want. They don’t know why they feel bad, or why they’re overwhelmed by their weaknesses, or what they hunger for.

Sometimes even born-again Christians neglect to think about getting God involved in the details of their lives. They go to church on Sunday, but the world in which we live today needs God’s involvement on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. Sometimes, more than anything else, we simply need more one-on-one time spent with God.

This Week
Spend time with God and let Him strengthen you. Invite Him to give you His thoughts on the different projects you are considering.

Prayer
“Lord, thank You for the strength of Your presence. Please help me to know Your mind and heart on those things that are on my mind and heart.”


Adapted from LIFE Today featuring Joyce Meyer and her book Look Great, Feel Great. Programs air the week of September 3, 2007.

Update from this morning's post

When I came to pick Talia up from school a little while ago, she came skipping out the door yelling "I had a great day!" She also informed me that she made a friend. Later, she told me that she really made 3 friends. I would assume that the first friend she mentioned is her best friend. She says her friend talks alot like she does. I laughed and said that God matched them up pretty well and she agreed. She said that when her friend kept talking and talking, she thought to herself "You talk alot, like me! I LIKE you!" Too cute!

I reminded her of the prayer we had this morning and what she asked God for. Then, I told her that God didn't just give her one friend, He gave her THREE! Then God gave me the gift of being able to teach her how God gives gifts to those He loves. I told her that when we ask for something, He gives us what we ask for and then SOOOO much more. In a 6 year old's life, this is a wonderful example of God filling your cup to overflowing. You should have seen her face when she was realizing that God answered her prayer and gave her so very much. What a gift!

God is God and we are not. He is good ALL the time.

School Prayer

I just got home from my neice's school. She was homeschooled for Kindergarten and so she has never experienced regular school until today. God help her! I am very pro homeschool so this is hard on me. I video taped everything from her standing beside my sister's car up to her going into her classroom. Her words "...but I will miss you mommy" still echo in my head. She is not my daughter but I feel as though she is. In my heart and in my mind, my neices and nephews ARE my kids. I just have to share them with their parents.

I asked God to make it so we would have time to pray about her day before school started. He provided that very opportunity! Talia and I were left alone in her classroom this morning for not quite 5 minutes. God reminded me of my request and so we took action. I asked Talia to pray about her day at school and so she did. I left the camera running. She, as usual, had a very heartfelt and beautiful prayer. For the past several days, I have been talking to her alot about what school was going to be like and that God always sends us a friend. I told her that if she asked God for a special friend, He would send one to her. This morning, she told God "Send me the friend you want to send me".

It wasn't until after the prayer was over that God reminded me what we just did together. We had prayer in school! Praise His name!

I look forward to seeing her after school today and hearing how God has answered her prayers and mine. I simply can't go through one day without thinking about and praying for my neices and nephews. They are everything that matters to me in this world aside from Tim and my own daughter.

LORD, keep them safe as they live and breathe in the world that you created and Satan attacks. I trust you to do this as I have no other hope other than you. I depend on you to be where I cannot be and do the things that I cannot do. You are my God and I am your child. I know that whatever I ask for in your son's name, according to your will, you will provide. Thank you for this and thank you, Jesus, for providing a way for us to speak directly to God and have a relationship with you! In Jesus' holy and precious and beautiful name I pray, Amen.

Matthew 12:34-37

"You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks. The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for every careless word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned."
-----New International Version

I was thinking about words today and this scripture came to mind. I thought about how everyone seems to be writing these days and everyone has something to say about everything. We either blog, write novels, do public speaking, or gossip.

What are we saying? Are we wasting time? Are we wasting our words on foolishness?

Here are the same verses using the version of the bible called The Message.....

"You have minds like a snake pit! How do you suppose what you say is worth anything when you are so foul-minded? It's your heart, not the dictionary, that gives meaning to your words. A good person produces good deeds and words season after season. An evil person is a blight on the orchard. Let me tell you something: Every one of these careless words is going to come back to haunt you. There will be a time of Reckoning. Words are powerful; take them seriously. Words can be your salvation. Words can also be your damnation."


Let us start using the time God has granted us by using words to change people's lives and send them running to the Father for love and salvation.

Perspective

Remember:
amateurs built the ark ..... professionals built the Titanic.


What will God do with you? Kinda' makes you wonder doesn't it? Why don't you have a little talk with Him and find out. If you choose to accept His mission, hold on tight because you're about to go on the ride of your life!!

Quote

"With hurricanes, tornados, fires out of control, mud slides, flooding, severe thunderstorms tearing up the country from one end to another, and with the threat of bird flu and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a good time to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance?"

--Jay Leno

A Story

An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots and each hung on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck. One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water.

At the end of the long walks from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full. For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments, but the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream and said,

"I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house."

The old woman smiled and replied,

"Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side? That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table. Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house."

Respect

As for being a liberal woman.....I'm not one.

I love it when a guy opens the door for me. I know perfectly well that I have the capabilities to open a door all by my little self and that's enough. A man opening a door for a woman isn't trying to tell her that she is stupid and incapable of even the simplest action. He is showing her respect by allowing her to go ahead of him and making each step she takes as effortless as possible. A guy who is willing to step aside and let someone go ahead of him is allowing himself to be humbled and that, my dear liberal women, is something that you should take notice of when looking for a good man.

I was at a discount store yesterday afternoon with my neice. As we approached the entrance door, a man was coming out and only opened the door wide enough for him to squeeze his own body through before letting it close right in front of us. There was a woman with a full cart coming toward the door behind him as well. I thought to myself how rude and mannerless this guy was and how he was certainly old enough to know better. I opened the door for myself and my neice and proceeded to hold the door open for the woman coming out the door. As I was holding the door for her, I happen to notice a man and his wife preparing to come in. I decided to go ahead and hold the door for them as well. The man, noticing that I was hold the door for them, quickly approached the door and held it for his wife and allowed her to enter the store first and me to let go of the door and continue shopping. This, I thought to myself, was very nice and impressed me.

A few months ago, I went to a grocery store and began looking at the vegetables on my right. As I was looking, I heard a bunch of commotion to my left but didn't bother to look around. I heard whistling. The kind of whistling you would do if you were trying to call a dog to you. I still didn't look because I figured it surely wasn't for me. Soon after, I heard a guy's voice yell "Hey!". I still kept shopping. The next thing I knew, the guy came over to me and began talking to me. I asked him about the whistling and yelling and he said it was him......which I suspected. I told him "Oh! I didn't know you were talking to me. My name is Jennifer."

Women, never allow a guy to whistle to get your attention. Make sure they treat you like a human being.....not a dog. Let them open the door for you. Men will not respect women if we don't allow them to take care of us......even when we can do it ourselves. Don't be a lazy bum. Just be a gracious lady.

Now you know what I think.

Nothing Else But Him

What if I had.......

a big house.....
a nice car.....
tons of well behaved kids....
a perfect lawn....
the nicest clothes a person could have....
a spouse that everyone else wished they had....
a huge church with tons of friends....
the ability to sing and play any instrument I wanted....
everyone knowing my name....

but Jesus didn't know me personally? Oh, He knows all about me, but just doesn't have a relationship with me. Is that His fault or mine? It's mine. Jesus doesn't push His way into someone's life. He needs invited and welcomed. Otherwise, He stays out....but nearby, just incase today you decide you want Him.

What would I be like? Would I continue to buy more things for my home and family? Would I go on more expensive trips and vacations than I had already taken? Maybe I would buy more cars just so I could have more than everyone else. Hey, I know....I could pay tons of money on great landscaping and make it so that I didn't have to do any of the work to maintain it. Maybe I could find a bigger and better church to "belong" to and get better friends in this one than I had in the past. Would I put the old church down because they didn't serve me like I think they should?

What happens when all of these things have been accomplished as well? What then? When I have done everything there is to do and said everything there is to say and thought everything there is to think, what then? What's left?

I'm still empty, that's what! There is absolutely nothing I can do to fill this emptiness inside of me and I feel like I'm just gonna' die if I don't fix it! Dear God, what can I do to make this lonely empty existance go away?!!----------Ever feel that way?

Here's the good news:

You can do nothing except come just as you are to Jesus. You see, there is nothing and can be nothing without Him. At the beginning of everything .....He is there. At the end of everything....He is there. In the middle of everything.....He is there.

Where are you? Do you see Him? Maybe you only see yourself and your problems. Maybe you don't look for Him because maybe you are scared to death of the possibility that He won't be there if you look for Him. Is this true?

"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you."
Matthew 7:7

He is always watching you and waiting for you to come to Him. If you look for Him, He'll be there. If you knock on the door, He's gonna' open it up. If you ask Him to come into your life and just take over because things are in such a mess you just want to give up and you know He can make things new, He will do it.

You know, my Jesus is quite the servant. Only He knows how to do just what you need and He always does the job completely.....leaving nothing unfinished.

You cannot fill emptiness, in an unseen place, with things that are seen. You can only fill the unseen place with another unseen thing.......the spirit of God.

You've tried everything else under the sun. Have you asked God to come in and do His thing? I did a long time ago and I'll tell you one thing, I have NEVER EVER regretted it. I've done alot of things in my life that brought about guilt and letting God take over isn't one of them. God has a way of taking things you can't see with your eyes and making them better. I'm telling 'ya....give this thing a shot. You won't be sorry!

I read in the bible about Jesus talking about us having a mansion when we get to heaven. I personally don't want a mansion.....I don't want streets made of gold......or even to gaze upon a crystal sea. I just want to have my Jesus hold me and tell me it's all over now and nothing bad is ever going to happen to me again. Heaven is going to be eternal peace for me.....you all can have my mansion!

Too Much? Not for Him!

Last week I was at church camp and had a wonderful discussion with one of my friends. We were talking about whether or not God allows us to have more trouble than we can bear. I told her that I had a hard time believing that God doesn't allow us to have more than we can handle. This is because I can think of no better way for God to get us to understand that we can not do it alone....we need Him. If everything that came our way was never too hard for us or too much for us to deal with, why would we ever ask God for help? Wouldn't we come to the realization that we can do all things through our own abilities?

I told my friend to check out www.biblegateway.com because it was a wonderful website and had a feature on it where you can type in a few key words and do a search on whatever scripture you're looking for. I just did this a few minutes ago and couldn't find the scripture that I thought I was looking for. Instead, I found the scripture that my friend and I had both apparently messed up. It turns out that the words weren't talking about trouble. The words were talking about temptation. Here it is:

1 Corinthians 10:13
"No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it."


Nowhere in the bible have I found a scripture that talks about God not allowing us to have too much trouble or too many problems.

My belief, and what I shared with my friend, is that God allows us to be in an impossible situation where we get to the point that we come to Him and say "I can't do it. Will you help me?" Then, God, gets to tell us to stand back and watch me work.

Everytime we can't and God can, our faith is strengthened and we spend alot less time complaining and worrying about bad situations.

Maybe you are having a hard time at work. Maybe your marriage is in trouble. Maybe you're having problems with your kids. Maybe you just feel like giving up altogether. Let me tell you something. This is not about work, marriage, kids or anything else you can come up with on this earth. This trouble is entirely about God calling you to be closer to Him. He's saying..... come to me, all of you who are tired and have troubles and I'll give you the rest you need. He wants to hear you talking to Him every day....in the morning, the afternoon and the evening and for that matter, all the times in between. Maybe you havn't been talking to Him much at all lately. Maybe you're having troubles because He wants you to talk to Him and actually be REAL. Is it possible that you're just been praying a bunch of words just for the sake of saying your prayers before going to bed because that's how you were raised?

God doesn't want to be on your list of things to do. Get rid of that stinkin' list and do it ALL for Him!


Job was the character that came up often in the conversation I had with my friend. Job, as you may know from reading the bible, loses everything he has to lose but still remains faithful to God. God is all he has. God describes who He is and reminds Job of who he is and who he is not. God is God and that has to be enough. Satan is granted permission to test Job by destroying everything Job had except for his life. This was to be spared because.....God said so.

God is in control of even Satan. There is nothing that happens to us here on earth without the God of all knowing about it. I believe trouble comes in order to draw us closer to Him. Let me give you an example.

When your kid is running around playing, they aren't thinking about how much they need you. When they fall down from maybe running a little too fast, they realize exactly how much they need you. They cry and if at all possible, run to you as quickly as possible. You see, they know exactly who to come to for help because they know you've helped them in the past. They trust you and have faith that you will come through for them this time as well. There may be times when you need to run to them because they are simply not able to physically move toward you. They still holler your name amid the tears of pain.

Suppose your child didn't come to you when they were hurt. What if, in fact, they went to someone else altogether? Maybe they don't go to anyone and they just keep the pain locked up inside? How can you help them?


Can you see God as the parent in this example? You are the child. How will you respond when trouble comes and you fall down?

Power

For years I have heard the words "the power of prayer". I've been doing some thinking about this and have come to the conclusion that there is no power in prayer whatsoever. Praying is simply us talking to God. There is no power in our ability to speak. There is only power in God's ability to listen and answer.

If we prayed to a statue, nothing would happen because the statue has no power. People tend to think that by their great and wonderfully worded prayers, God moves. This is not the case. God moves and breathes whether we live or die. He does not need us to exist in order to maintain a meaningful life. Prayer is simply communicating with God. We talk....He listens. He talks....we listen. Prayer is give and take and full of action. All we have to do is ask our Father in Heaven and if what we ask for is what He also wants, it will be given to us.

Sometimes we ask for something we think we want or need but God can see the future and knows not to give to us what we asked for. We think He is punishing us or doesn't like us, but in reality, He is merely protecting us from our own ignorance. God always answers our prayers. Sometimes the answer is "No." No one likes to hear the word "no" but sometimes it is the best answer. "No", can be the best thing in the world if we could only see what would happen if the answer had been "yes".

There is an older country song that says something to the effect of "I thank God for unanswered prayers". If I remember right, the guy prayed that he would get to be with this one particular girl but the answer was "no" when he prayed. He is now thankful because of that answer because what he has now is so much better than what he thought he wanted before.

No matter what your answer is, be thankful, because God sees what you need and He knows that when your needs are met, you aren't going to be wanting anything else.

Two Dad's Coming Together



This is my favorite picture of my dad that I've seen so far. There is just something about him in that uniform that makes me feel proud.

My dad was a marine and served in the Vietnam war before I was born. Sometimes I think about the fact that he could have so easily been killed there and I would have never been born. Dad has often talked about how the only reason he survived Vietnam is because he "had a praying mommy back home". He's told me about several situations in the war that should have killed him and that there was no other way to explain the fact that he lived through each one than to know his mom was praying for his safety.

My dad will be 62 this fall and in very recent years became a christian after many, many years of praying family and the mercy and great timing of my Father in heaven. Praise His name!!

So I personally believe that God agreed with my grandma in their many discussions about my dad and decided to let my dad live until he was ready for heaven. You see, neither one of them wanted to see him go to Hell.

You have no idea how it feels to sit down and talk to my dad now about God and Satan without him turning away from the conversation like he did most of my life. There are some beautiful sounds in this world that I can describe to you, like the violin or a baby giggling, but I could never explain to you the beauty of hearing my daddy talk to me about the Almighty God!

Changes with Food

For the past several years, I have been convinced that eating the kind of diet you read about in the book of Leviticus is the right way of eating. I have also gained a great deal of criticism during that time because it is evident that most people do not believe this way. I simply read the words in the Old Test. and followed them. I have also felt alot healthier by eating this way.

As of June 11th this year, I have changed my beliefs about food. I am, however, still convinced that it is far more sensible and healthy to eat the Leviticus diet. I plan to eat pork, shrimp, etc. now but definately not like I was doing years ago. My body was not made to deal with preservatives and such like nitrates and nitrites. Therefore, the lunchmeats, etc. will not be eaten on a regular basis.

I debated on whether or not I should even tell anyone about this change because I don't want to make a big deal about it. Yet, I felt the need to tell you all about it because I have been through a wonderful growing experience and want to share it with you.

The scripture I was reading on June 11th spoke to me for the first time even though I had read it many times before. I have come to the understanding that going through the whole ordeal of *believing and obeying what scripture says no matter what anyone else tells me* was something that God allowed me to go through. I believe it was all a big test to see if I was willing to do what He says....even when family was against it.

I would go through it all again to gain what I have now.

I can go to the grocery store now and look at food that was forbidden to me for such a long time and say "I can" instead of "I can't". I am able to enjoy feeling the freedom that comes from Jesus making all things new......and clean!

Why I didn't read and understand the scripture that would set me free from restricted eating, I don't know. I guess the test wasn't over yet. You know, now that I think about it, my family that was so vocal about my eating habits have just finally started being quiet about the way I do things. Apparently, I needed to weather the storm before finding the "freedom scripture".

Here is what I was reading when it finally sunk in....

Romans 14

The Weak and the Strong

1Accept him whose faith is weak, without passing judgment on disputable matters. 2One man's faith allows him to eat everything, but another man, whose faith is weak, eats only vegetables. 3The man who eats everything must not look down on him who does not, and the man who does not eat everything must not condemn the man who does, for God has accepted him. 4Who are you to judge someone else's servant? To his own master he stands or falls. And he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand.

5One man considers one day more sacred than another; another man considers every day alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind. 6He who regards one day as special, does so to the Lord. He who eats meat, eats to the Lord, for he gives thanks to God; and he who abstains, does so to the Lord and gives thanks to God. 7For none of us lives to himself alone and none of us dies to himself alone. 8If we live, we live to the Lord; and if we die, we die to the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.

9For this very reason, Christ died and returned to life so that he might be the Lord of both the dead and the living. 10You, then, why do you judge your brother? Or why do you look down on your brother? For we will all stand before God's judgment seat. 11It is written: " 'As surely as I live,' says the Lord, 'every knee will bow before me; every tongue will confess to God.' "[a] 12So then, each of us will give an account of himself to God.

13Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in your brother's way. 14As one who is in the Lord Jesus, I am fully convinced that no food[b] is unclean in itself. But if anyone regards something as unclean, then for him it is unclean. 15If your brother is distressed because of what you eat, you are no longer acting in love. Do not by your eating destroy your brother for whom Christ died. 16Do not allow what you consider good to be spoken of as evil. 17For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit, 18because anyone who serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and approved by men.

19Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification. 20Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of food. All food is clean, but it is wrong for a man to eat anything that causes someone else to stumble. 21It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or to do anything else that will cause your brother to fall.

22So whatever you believe about these things keep between yourself and God. Blessed is the man who does not condemn himself by what he approves. 23But the man who has doubts is condemned if he eats, because his eating is not from faith; and everything that does not come from faith is sin.

Footnotes:
a]
Romans 14:11 Isaiah 45:23
b]
Romans 14:14 Or that nothing


The nice thing about it is that I can now relate better to those who eat differently than most people. I do not look down on someone because of their decision to remove something from their diet. I respect them and look upon them as having alot of strength because by golly, it's not easy to do. When people roll their eyes or talk badly about them because of not eating pork or other things, I can relate better to how they feel now.

There is never any cause for putting someone down and making them feel less than you because of a decision they have made between themselves and God.

Isn't freedom beautiful?

Why Pray Outloud?

It's important to hear ourselves asking God, thanking God and Praising God. It helps to make us humble. Think about what you're saying to Him. In the grand scheme of things, how does what you say to Him make a difference? He hears us when we are silent and when we are vocal.


Matthew 6:5-8
"And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him."


We are warned about being vocal in our prayers to God in order to be seen/heard by other people. Does this mean we are never suppose to pray outloud? No. It all comes down to what your intentions are. Are you praying outloud so you can appear to be great in the eyes of other people or are you praying outloud because it's good to hear your very own voice asking for help from the only One who can provide it.

There is power in speaking the name of Jesus. With that in mind, does it make sense that praying to God outloud would be somewhat like confessing who God is and vocally proclaiming His power to hear and answer His children? Maybe talking to God is praising Him.

Praise His name! For He hears us and can't wait for the next time we come to Him. He loves the sound of our voices and yet, when we speak, He is really hearing our hearts. He knows if we mean what we are saying. Don't lie to Him. It hurts Him so very much. We are so very precious to Him.

Something to think about.

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